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The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves, the resolution not to twist them to fit our own image. If in loving them we do not love what they are, but only their potential likeness to ourselves, then we do not love them: we only love the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
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To burn with desire and keep quiet about it is the greatest punishment we can bring on ourselves.
Federico García Lorca
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You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.
Thich Nhat Hanh
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Let someone love you just the way you are – as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you think you are. To believe that you must hide all the parts of you that are broken, out of fear that someone else is incapable of loving what is less than perfect, is to believe that sunlight is incapable of entering a broken window and illuminating a dark room.
Marc Hack

Someone just posted one of those crossword things where the first x words you find pertain to you/your life/etc. In this case it was the first three words you find are a predictor for 2014. My words were:

  1. Love
  2. You
  3. Happiness

It’s absolutely and completely illogical to believe this little thing is actually a predictor for the year to come, but I feel like it’s just given a little validation to how I feel this year will shape up.


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ugh my girlfrand is a BABE. Also thx casey for RUINING that cute pic of us.

My ladyfriend is way babely. Just look at that face. Nf.

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Sleep tight, my little burrito.
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Expect there to be difficulties of understanding. Expect there to be times when what you consider a “normal” amount of socializing proves to be too much in a way that is difficult to empathize with. But prepare yourself to love this person regardless of the minor inconveniences that love might present. Because the love you share with someone that other, less deserving minds would deem “shy” or “weird” is something that is offered up every day, something that takes effort and conscious compromise on their part. For an introvert, letting someone into the small space which you have forever claimed as your own to protect your most basic needs of comfort is a huge risk. And they love you for having taken it. Never forget to show them that you love them back, and that you’re more than happy to let them be alone with their tea for a little bit if that’s what they need to do most.
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When sex becomes a production or performance that is when it loses its value. Be mutual. Be loud. Be clumsy. Make noises, be quiet, and make a mess. Bite, scratch, push, pull, hold, thrust. Remove pressure from the moment. Love the moment. Embrace it. Enjoy your body; enjoy your partners’ body. Produce sweat, be natural, entice your senses, give into pleasure. Bump heads, miss when you kiss, laugh when it happens. Speak words, speak with your body, speak to their soul. Touch their skin, kiss their goose bumps, and play with their hair. Scream, beg, whimper, sigh, let your toes curl, lose yourself. Chase your breath; keep the lights on, watch their eyes when they explode. Forget worrying about extra skin, sizes of parts and things that are meaningless. Save the expectations, take each second as it comes. Smear your make up, mess up your hair, rid your masculinity, and lose your ego. Detonate together, collapse together, and melt into each other.

#love ma’ girl

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I’m just going to take a moment to appreciate my girlfriend. If you want to skip the cheese, read no more haha.

I’ve never been with anyone more compassionate, caring, thoughtful, rational, passionate and above all, simply happy. We don’t argue, but we can discuss if there’s a disagreement. We don’t judge, we aren’t jealous, we can talk freely and openly about our thoughts/problems/fantasies/goals/needs/etc. We support each other. We have fun staying in, we have fun going on dates, we have fun in groups of each others’ friends. We take care of each other. 

Some guy named Steve Hall said  The truest form of love is how you behave toward someone, not how you feel about them.”

Now, I don’t know anything about Steve Hall, but that sentiment resonates with me. I’ve been with a few people, and some of them said they loved me. But then they behaved in ugly ways that I didn’t want to associate with the notion of love. And I behaved in ugly ways as a response to those feelings.

Finally I’ve met someone who surpasses my every expectation of what being in love should feel like. I am the happiest.

This girl right here makes me the happiest person in the entire fucking world and I don’t think I could ever find a better fit. You are the best fit, in my arms & in my heart.

And I love the shit outta ya.

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just being sweet domestic princesses in the kitchen

My heart.

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What Moving On Is Like « Thought Catalog ►
Jan. 11, 2012

Moving on is not like a birthday, you can’t count down the hours ‘til it arrives and you can’t mark it on a calendar and you can’t call up your friends to help you celebrate. You can’t plan for it and you can’t conclude it by blowing out a candle. When moving on happens there will be no announcements, no notifications, no congratulations. There will be no parade; only you will know. Moving on is like aging that way, if aging happened backward. If the passing of days made you new and young, if your condition only had room to improve. Instead of a throbbing pain in your right knee forcefully, increasingly making its presence known, first with a whisper and then with a mumble and then with a shout, ‘til you can’t move, ‘til you can’t walk; moving on is gradual like that except when it’s over, you can walk just fine. You can run, even.

Moving on is like this: one day you forget the taste. The next, you forget the smell. Then the touch. Then the laugh. Then the smile. Then the jokes. Then the eyes, the hair, the hands, the feet. You forget the socks. You forget the fingers, the toes, the sex. You forget the pulses, the beats, the rhythms and how you sometimes felt like they all belonged to you. You forget the words; finally, you forget the voice that spoke them. Moving on is like one day, you’re walking or reading or drinking the sun and one of those footprints, one of those artifacts will creep into your consciousness, “already seen,” the French call this, déjà vu, and you won’t know where it belongs or how it got there. All it takes is a familiar laugh, a recognizable word and you are transported to who knows where. You are a confused paleontologist now, scrambling to make sense of things left behind, trying to reunite the right dinosaur with the right bones. The scar from his burst appendix goes here, the part of his leg that doesn’t grow hair belongs there, I think this is his morning breath but maybe it belongs to someone who came before him; some other ghost, some other relic. His taste is an aftertaste now, his crow’s feet a souvenir with no place to call home. That’s what moving on is like.

Moving on is not like beginning a new chapter, it’s like beginning a new book — with each turned page, the last story you read fades into the background. A fairy tale that becomes just another book on a shelf; folded corners and underlined words the only reminder of how you used to touch and hold and love it. Moving on is when you begin to forget the intricacies of a character you knew intimately, you forget what he did for a living and the way he prepared grilled cheese and the nickname he had for his first girlfriend. You forget how he lost his virginity, you forget his middle name.

Moving on is waking up without a sour feeling in your stomach, looking at a familiar menu and ordering something different, taking the direct route to a destination and not the one that crosses a path you once set in stone. Moving on is when you think about him and don’t punish yourself for it, when he begins to evoke more of a scientific response than an emotional one, like “This is a 6’0” blonde-haired person who exists,” and not “This is a person I wish I’d never met; this is a person who has made me less of one.” Moving on is not to destroy or to combust or to set ablaze, it is simply to move, to advance through space and time, to leave behind the familiar dull of heartbreak for the new, the unknown, the strange. Moving on is a bird flying south for the winter who decides maybe the warmth isn’t so bad, who decides maybe he’ll stay there for awhile; moving on is like freedom, is what moving on is like.

In studio singing about frightening freedom and lightening love.
King Charles
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Le cœur a ses raisons que la raison ne connaît point.
Blaise Pascal